Many people love incorporating pee-play into the bedroom. The sensation of warm water trickling down the body feels so sexy. You can even humiliate your sub by forcing them to drink your pee. So, what is the aim of watersports, urolagnia, and golden showers?
BDSM Watersport, Urolagnia, and Golden Showerds refer to any activities involving urine. Golden showers refer to peeing on or near your partner. Urolognia is the psychological joy that comes from urination play in general. Watersports is a broader definition. It refers to any sexual activity that involves pee; often, this is linked to BDSM humiliation play.
As you can imagine, urination is a natural fit for BDSM play. It’s ideal for use as part of humiliation play, as you show a submissive who is in charge. If you want, you can combine it with other forms of kink play. Keep reading to learn more about how pee-play works and how you can incorporate it into your sex life.
What Is the Difference Between Watersport, Urolagnia, And Golden Showers?
There is a wide range of names given to pee-play. These terms include watersports, urolagnia, and golden showers. While they all refer to the same thing, there are a few differences between these terms. So let’s take a closer look at what they mean:
- Watersports. This term covers all manner of pee-related activities. For example, you might want to pee on a submissive partner. Or you can make them drink your urine. This can even extend to kinkier activities like enemas. Later, we’ll go into more depth about the fun activities that you can explore.
- Urolagnia. This is the psychological term for those who enjoy playing with urine during sex. This includes those who like to pee on a partner as well as those who want to get the golden shower.
- Golden Showers. This tends to have a more limited definition than watersports. It’s often used to refer to the act of urinating on a partner during sex.
It should be noted that, for most people, this type of play is used in conjunction with BDSM. For example, giving someone a golden shower is a way of showing your control over them. But this isn’t always the case. Some people just get turned on through watersports without the additional kinks associated with BDSM.
Are Golden Showers Safe?
After hearing about this type of play, reservations are common, mainly if it’s your first time. One of the biggest concerns is whether there is a chance that you could get sick. The risks often depend on the type of watersports you are trying.
Is It Safe To Piss On Someone Body?
If the idea of getting a golden shower excites you, there’s some good news. It’s completely safe, with a minor caveat. You should try to keep urine out of any cuts or scrapes that you have. You don’t want to risk the bacteria causing a wound infection. Plus, salt water (our pee) can sting the cut.
Is It Safe To Drink Piss?
Now onto a more contentious issue. Is it safe to drink urine? Previously, it was thought that pee was sterile, but now we know that it does contain some bacteria. But there’s no need to freak out if a little goes into your mouth. You shouldn’t have any issues if you are only sipping a small amount. As long as your partner is healthy, pee is safe to drink. Furthermore, most STIs (Sexually transmitted infections) can’t be transferred through urine.
Though you shouldn’t consume urine if:
- You are dehydrated
- Your partner is taking a diuretic
How To Incorporate Urination In BDSM?
Watersports is a broad kink with plenty of fun activities to try. Here are some ideas to explore when you are thinking of incorporating this into BDSM play:
- Domination play. This is one of the most options, with plenty of play options for you to explore. You might want to consider tying them down while you give them a golden shower. For a dirtier option, you might want to hold their mouth open and force them to swallow a small amount of pee. If you like this approach, you can use a funnel gag to force your submissive to swallow your liquids. If you are new to this type of BDSM play, this article goes through the basics of master and slave relationships.
- Watching your partner pee. Sometimes, you might want to command a submissive partner to humiliate themselves by pissing their pants for your pleasure. Or you might want to ask them to beg to see you wet yourself, draping your dirty underwear on their body when you are finished.
- Combing with other forms of kink play. Watersports works well with other types of kink play. For example, you might want to drip hot wax onto your submissive. To cool them down afterward, you can use a golden shower.
- Catheters. This can be used to allow you to open your bladder, so it’s easier to pee. However, this piece of equipment is only recommended for highly experienced BDSM fans. If you are using this gear, it’s vital to make sure that you are sterilizing everything properly. You don’t want to risk getting an infection. Furthermore, it can be quite painful if it is inserted incorrectly, so it’s vital to know what you are doing. If in doubt, it’s best to leave the catheter play out.
- Peeing during sex. If you want, you can ask your partner to pee on you during penetrative sex. If you want, you can even follow this up with oral sex, licking all the piss off them.
- Self-Pee. Why wait for a partner to explore urination play with you? Self-pee is always an option. You might want to lie on your back and allow the golden shower to wash over you. Alternatively, you might want to piss into a cup or bowl and dump it over your head.
Extrem Funnel Gag – an amazing tool for domination play
There are plenty of other ways that you can use watersports in the bedroom. Let your mind run free as you explore the kinky possibilities.
Though it’s always important to keep your mental health in mind, this type of humiliation play can be particularly intense, especially if you are new to the world of BDSM. This can cause some people to experience subdrop, which makes them feel low after an intense scene. If this applies to you, check out this resource on how to deal with a Subdrop – BDSM Aftermath.
How To Prepare For Watersports Play?
So, you’re ready to start experimenting with watersports play. However, there are a few things that you should know before you try this type of play.
What To Do Before A Watersports Play Scene
There are a few simple things to do to ensure that you have fun with watersports; these include:
- Drink plenty of water. If you plan on peeing on your partner, it’s best to spend the hours before the scene drinking plenty of water. There are a few reasons why this is so important. First, it will make it easier to perform when the time comes. Secondly, it will ensure that your pee is clear and is closer to water rather than yellow. Finally, it can also make it more enjoyable. Many people get turned on by the pressure on their bowels before the sweet release that comes when they can let go.
You also need to ensure that you or your partner is well-hydrated before you start drinking pee. Urine contains a high amount of sodium. If you aren’t careful, this can make you dehydrated.
- Drink fruit juice. If you want, you can try drinking some fruit juice around 45 minutes to an hour before your watersports scene. This will make your pee taste nicer and give it a more pleasant aroma.
- Avoid any strenuous activities. Exerting yourself too much can cause you to become dehydrated.
- Get consent. Talking to your partner about their boundaries is important, especially if this is your first watersports experience. If this is your first time, it’s common to be a little nervous. Start with the basics and get more intense over time.
- Prepare the room. Next, it’s time to start preparing the room. How you do this will depend on where you want to play. There isn’t much to do in a wet space, like a bathroom. The floor should naturally drain away any excess piss. If you are in the bedroom, you might want to place towels on the ground. These rubber sheets will slide smoothly onto the bed and help you contain your mess. You might even want to try taking action in your backyard, where no clean-up is needed. Just be careful, as you don’t want to get charged with public indecency.
- Sterilize any equipment. If you are planning on using things like funnel gags or catheter tubes, it’s best to sterilize them before and after play.
- Turn on a humidifier. If possible, it’s best to turn on a humidifier to stop the windows from fogging up.
What To Do During A Watersports Scene
If this is your first watersports scene, you might want to start by experimenting in the shower. You can try getting started with a golden shower. See how that makes you feel. If you like it, you can progress to some of the more intense BDSM activities we discussed earlier.
Sometimes, these might be too much. You might want to start by watching your partner urinate. Or you can urinate in the shower together.
There are a few things to keep in mind during this type of play, these include:
- Have a safe word. There should be a safe word that allows you to stop playing whenever you become too uncomfortable. For example, if your partner has a funnel gag, they might not always be able to say their safe word. In this case, you can have a safe (hand) signal.
- Be relaxed. Sometimes, you might feel a bit of pressure to pee on command. When you want to let go, it’s important to relax your body and allow it to flow out. As you practice more, it will become easier to piss on demand.
- Start the shower mid-stream. As we mentioned earlier, there can be a small number of bacteria in the urine. To reduce the risks, it’s best to start playing mid-stream, as the first portion will contain the bulk of the bacteria.
- Stay warm. Choosing a warm location is best, especially during the winter months. While pee will initially be warm, the moisture will start to evaporate. If you aren’t careful, this can cause your body temperature to drop to uncomfortable levels.
- Avoid peeing in a vagina. The vagina has a delicate pH balance. So, urinating inside someone might upset this balance and cause a yeast infection. Instead, you can give someone a piss anal enema safely.
What To Do After Watersports Play
Watersports play can bring you and your partner an immense amount of joy. However, once you’ve finished soaking each other, there are a few things that you should do; these include:
- Shower and clean up. Often, going for a shower is one of the first things you will do after you have finished playing. After that, it’s time to clean up your house. If you have plastic sheets, you can mop up the piss and clean the room.
- Talk about it. It’s best to talk with your partner about how the BDSM experience was (aftercare). What did they like? Was there something that made them uncomfortable? And the most exciting question is, what would they like to try next time?
- Support your submissive. If you had Dom/sub play, it’s a good idea to spend a few minutes holding your submissive and telling you that you love them. This creates a clear distinction between BDSM play and real life and will help to prevent subdrop.
Final Thoughts
Playing with your pee can be a lot of fun. Sometimes, just the sensation of being covered in the warm piss of a partner can produce a powerful orgasm.
Even better, it isn’t difficult to get started. For example, you might want rubber sheets to make cleaning easier. You can also use a funnel gag to force your partner to swallow your piss. So, grab these tools and start exploring the kinkier side of watersports.