Are you fed up with the extra sass of your bratty sub? Do you feel it is getting out of control? Time to train that little brat with some clever punishment ideas designed just for them.
A BDSM brat is mischievous, sassy, and defiant, making them quite a handful. Sometimes, this can get out of hand and must be handled appropriately. Unfortunately, no punishment will do for brats – they need physical, sexual, painful, or emotional punishments to truly learn a lesson.
From corner time to bondage and enforced silence – get ready to discover how to punish your brat effectively while remaining in control and respecting boundaries.
What Is a Brat in BDSM?
Brats in BDSM are like the kids you love to hate! They’re super naughty, sassy, and defiant, pushing their Dom to the brink of adrenaline-rushed madness.
Their goal? Provoke their Dom with witty banter and cheeky language, like ‘I’m not listening!’ or ‘That won’t work on me. The result? Intense consensual scenes that ooze authority and defiance.
But – don’t be fooled! These brats still submit to their ‘brat tamer’ (the Dom who keeps them in check!) and obey the rules that have been agreed upon. But, they show their submission differently from the conventional – and it’s definitely a blast.
What Brats Need As Punishment
As mentioned above, brats can be quite the handful as they love to argue back, and keeping them in line can be challenging. Gentle disciplinary action such as words of caution, verbal reprimands, and scolding just won’t cut it for a brat.
So what’s a Dom to do regarding punishments that hit the mark for a brat?
The answer is physical, sexual, painful, or emotional punishment (Get all these punishment ideas here). These types of punishments are more intense and effective with brats as they can get their points across without the back and forth, which often leads nowhere. But let us discover some extraordinary punishments, especially for brats.
9 Unique Punishment Ideas For Brats
Brats may be complex subs, but the ways a Dom can punish them are wide-ranging. Here are nine disciplinary methods you can use to tame and punish your brat:
- Try corner time to get that brat in check
No attention for them until they learn to take it down a notch. To make this effective, don’t allow any talking or eye contact. Instead, make sure the brat spends just enough time in the corner for them to think about their behavior and its consequences.
- Put them on timeout and let it sink in.
When their sass gets out of hand, sending a brat to timeout is a great way to get them to cool off and reflect upon their actions. Ensure you’re consistent and strict to ensure the brat learns their lesson.
- Try bondage and enforced silence.
Sometimes the best punishment for your brat is bondage followed by enforced silence. Bind them with restraints and put them in a bondage cage. The sound of their thoughts will teach them some much-needed discipline!
- Privilege revocation.
Nothing will set a brat straight faster than taking away something they enjoy. It could be time with friends, smartphone use, watching TV, etc. Let them know that privileges can be earned if they learn to behave better.
- Send a sizzling shock through their system with some electric play.
Electroplay can be an effective tool for training a bratty sub to start behaving better. You can use an electric wand, electro paddle, G-spot and clitoral stimulators, anything that will prompt them to pull back their bratty behavior!
- Spankings and melted wax on their naughty bits.
Well, that’ll surely get their attention! Give the brat’s erogenous zones (e.g., nipples and pussy lips) a good spanking, and pour some hot wax over them. Keep the temperature of the wax from too hot, as you don’t want it to cause any damage. The right candles you will find in our BDSMfreedom ETSY shop.
- Control their pleasure and bring them to the brink.
You can use a high-power vibrator such as this Ultimate Magic Wand to bring them to the brink of orgasm over and over again. Just make sure you don’t let them go over that edge! They’ll gain a massive lesson in self-control and respecting boundaries.
- Let them watch while you pleasure yourself with your vibrator.
Push the humiliation factor up by having the brat watch you pleasure yourself, especially if they’ve been lacking in that department. Ensure they know your vibrator is doing an even better job than them.
- Walk them around like they’re your puppy.
Put a leash and a collar on that naughty brat, and have them walk around like a puppy! This will be an effective way for them to learn about manners, obedience, and following orders. Note that this punishment won’t work if they’re into pup play.
Tips For Effective Brat Punishment
The tips below can help ensure smooth and safe disciplining, even when using the punishment ideas for brats discussed above:
- Negotiate– It’s essential to discuss and agree on potential punishments before getting started. This ensures everyone is on the same page and avoids surprises.
- Check-in– Take a break from the punishment to offer a little attention and affection. This will let the submissive brat know that they’re still cared for, even if they’re being disciplined.
- Customize and be flexible– Since different punishment methods work for different submissives, remain open-minded about brat punishment. Not all ideas may work the first time, but with experimentation, eventually, you should find something that works.
- Stay in control– A Dom should never get so angry or out of control that they are doing more harm than good. Remember that communication and empathy come first in a brat-punishment session.
- Be respectful– Above all, respect should always be maintained. It’s important to remember that brat punishment is never a license to do whatever you want with the submissive, no matter what you agree on.
Conclusion
It’s time to take charge and put your bratty sub in check! With the list of punishment ideas for brats above, you can find the disciplinary method for your brat, teaching them important lessons in discipline, boundaries, and respect. Brats can be hard to manage, but you’ve got this! So, get to it – it’s time for some severe brat-taming!
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