Looking for a way to spice up your Valentine’s Day? As you probably realize, 14.2.2023 is approaching shortly, and it’s time to think about your loved one. No need to worry – we’ve got you covered! Sir M and slave Lisa put together a special selection of our favorite kinky products to ensure you and your partner have the best Valentine’s Day ever.
So, if you’re ready for a wild ride, read on and check out our top picks for BDSM-inspired items this V-Day!
For Valentine Day With BDSM starters, some essentials you truly need:
The B in BDSM stands for Bondage; thus, let’s start getting your partner restrained and helpless.
A good start into soft or light bondage is this ready to “go” Bed-Restrain-Kit. It’s an Amazon bestseller, easy to install in all kinds of beds. But don’t expect too much, this isn’t for hard hitters it’s more for starters and people who want to have it a bit softer.
If you are looking for a more “all in one” beginner solution, try out this 11-in-1 starter package, which gives you some basic cuffs, a blindfold, a gagging ball, some impact tools (whip), a rope, and many other stuff.
More details on soft and light bondage you will also find in our dedicated blog Soft Bondage: Great For Beginners!
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You want to go a bit more serious and put your partner in non-escapable wrist cuffs and also into a nice leather collar. Those ones are really recommended by Sir M, while cuffs and collars as well do have lockable buckets to make an escape without your permission impossible.
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If you want to show your partner just how much effort you’re willing to put into bondage, then we highly recommend bondage rope. It’s surely not the easiest way to handle, but definitely far more aesthetically pleasing than other kinds of bondage.
If you prefer something more convenient, professional handcuffs are also a good choice. We strongly advise investing in higher quality items over those found at most sex shops – it’s worth that extra expenditure! Some more safety tips about handcuffs in BDSM, you will find in our blog, How to Safely Use Handcuffs During Sex.
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If you are not on the budget for this V-Day and really want to notch up your BDSM game, Sir M recommends diving into electro play and finding a “new home” for your submissive.
Sir M’s favorite in electro play and safe and easy to start with is the Mystim Pure Vibes, which offers a variety of sensations, from soft pricking to rhythmic pulsing or sensual pushing. It’s the perfect starter model for exploring BDSM pleasure!
If it comes to “parking” your sub for a while or looking the slave away, nothing is quite more fulfilling than this Hanging Leather Cage. Imprison your partner with the leather straps that twist around them, cradling their body as they ascend and attach to a durable metal ring wrapped in leather. Your lover is inescapable at your mercy! This amazing hanging cage is the new toy in Sir M’s red room. And the fun he has with his slave L in this cage is just starting …
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Do you want to take it a bit easier on V-day? Also not interested to see all the vanilla sex couples in restaurants and cinemas. How it would be with a BDSM-related movie night to start your kinky evening! Interested beforehand, what to expect? Sir M and slave L watched many films on the topic, and here you will find their opinion about them.
With Amazon.com, you are only one click away, thus also a good gift for those of you who missed out on ordering something from the list above 😉
The top must-seen with BDSM-background:
The Secretary (prime video)
The Story of O (as Blu-ray)
50 Shades of Grey (prime video 3-movie bundle)
Duke of Burgundy (prime video)
My Mistress (prime video)
Have a great V-day shopping, BDSM lovers! Let us know in the comments below what you chose or if we missed out on something you would definitely put on your Valentins-shopping-list.