One attractive attribute of bondage and dominant plays is the assortment of activities, materials, and styles you and your partner can perform. Regardless of where you find yourselves, as long as you both are ready to have hot, sexy bondage plays, you will find one or two things that will make it possible.
Now, let’s move our focus to the household. You probably are a beginner in BDSM plays with no plans to spend much on sex toys and equipment, or you might be a big-time rigger with a sex dungeon, bondage tools, and toys of all sorts and sizes, but you want to try something different. That is where our concept of DIY household BDSM toys comes up.
What are BDSM Toys from Your Household?
Household BDSM toys are simply substitutes for custom-made or branded toys and materials for bondage and dominant plays. These toys are simple to assemble if necessary. Sometimes, alterations might not have to be made to these materials before you can use them. There are not just limited to fundamental parts of the house like the living room or bedrooms; you can also make use of amenities in the kitchen, bathroom/toilet, stores, and house workshops. If you can get creative with that particular material and it can play its proposed role perfectly, go for it!
Examples of Household BDSM Toys
Creating household toys for BDSM can be fun and engaging. Sometimes, you and your partner can sit together and make these toys or decide on what can be used in the house as bondage or a pain inflictor. It fosters intimacy and understanding between you and your partner before you start all the kinky stuff. It is also a form of cost reduction by saving you from the high costs of branded sex toys.
So, are you feel now interested in creating your own BDSM toys? Here are some household tools, materials, and stuff you can easily find and assemble if necessary:
- Ropes: Online sex toy stores charge a lot for their BDSM ropes. Maybe they have their unique charms or something; we won’t know. But, if you don’t plan to spend so much on ropes, you can use your usual home ropes as far as they meet the basic criteria. These include durability, strength, proper length, and so on. For more on BDSM ropes and how to find the best ones for your plays, check out our article. If you or your partner don’t have any reactions or allergies to these ropes, you can use them for your bondage plays. Ropes are critical bondage materials. Subs also use them for suspension plays and shibari decorations.
- Duct tape: This is also a good substitute for bondage materials. Duct tapes are very firm, making them perfect restraints and gags. For pain plays, you can place duct tape on the part of the skin and rip it off very fast. It will cause mild pain initially to that part of the skin. However, avoid placing it on areas with hair; it will take all of it off. Duct tape can also be used for complete body wraps and mummifications, but be sure to get bruised when getting it off.
- Plastic foil wraps: Its name has already hinted at what it can be used for. Plastic foil wraps are better than duct tape or other tapes for full-body wraps. It is far easier to take off after use, and you can be sure of not having injuries or bruises. It is used during mummification and sensory deprivation plays; please don’t forget the breathing holes or use it with caution during breath play.
- Bedsheets: Asides giving you comfortable night rests, bedsheets and spreads also have their kinky use. They can either be used as restraints to hold the ankles and wrists to platforms like walls, bedposts, racks, and closet doors, or they can be used as full body wraps. Smaller-sized sheets or pillowcases can also be used as gags or blindfolds.
- Cloth pegs: Cloth clips for drying clothes are also very good pain inflictors during BDSM plays. You can place them on sensitive parts like the nipples, clitoris, and bare skin. Removing these pegs leaves a sore but tingly sensation on that body part. The dominant partner can also use it as a control for the subject. You can pull it while it is on the body if the subject does something you don’t want.
- Wooden spoons: When you want to leave red spank marks on your subs’ ass cheeks, try wooden spoons. I am a big fan of spaghetti spoons because they are wide and do the job. Unlike whips and canes, they don’t leave sting pains when using them. Instead, they give off a kind of wide-range closure sort of pain, which is very satisfying. Ensure you clean it before using it, or you will have a butt-flavored meal.
- Belts: If you grew up with disciplinarian parents, you probably know how to use a belt for efficient butt-whooping. Belts leave painful but arousing feelings on the body when used as whips or canes. The strap is used for the flogging, while the upper side of the belt and the belt head serves as a handle. They can also be used as restraints to hold the ankles, wrists, and even the whole body to a platform. Find details on how to use a belt to restrain your partner in our article 10 Alternatives to handcuffs that you can easily fly with.
- PVC pipes: This is another pain inflictor. PVC pipes can be used for spanking and flogging during BDSM plays. You can ordinarily use the pipes, which will give a stinging sensation, or you can put sand and tape the edges so the sand will not pour out. The pipe leaves a wider pain sensation in alliance with the sand, like wooden spoons. PVC pipes can also serve in bondage, as essential equipment in device bondage, or very quickly as an improvised spreader bar. Want your spreader with one click? Find a good one here on Amazon.
- Chopsticks and rubber: Singularly, rubber can be used to inflict arousing pains to the body. You can place it on the nipples, and the penis, as a kind of ejaculation withholds. However, you can use the same rubber to hold chopsticks together to give a kind of peg. It will serve a similar purpose as cloth pegs and inflict pain on the subject’s body.
- Showerhead: You downtown a vibrator and you want sweet waves on your pussy? Then use a removable showerhead; it works exactly the same way. You just have to increase the water pressure to have it discharge with force, causing a sweet vibratory motion down there.
- Ice cubes: Ice cubes in the mouth are very soothing- then imagine how good it will feel while receiving oral sex. Have ice cubes in your mouth during oral sex. It will give a very cool sensation to the penis.
- Gamepads: Your xbox controller is not just for playing Mortal Kombat; you can use it as a dildo and a vibrator. Let your partner play vibrating games with one of the controllers while the other remains down there, giving you waves in your belly.
Conclusion!
At the end of the day, you don’t have to own the most exotic BDSM collection before you have a good time. All that matters is that the material available serves your purpose perfectly. Making your toys also boosts imagination and fantasies. These materials are all around the house and just need efficient utilization. So be creative, and be kinky!