When it comes to BDSM, men are often the ones who are expected to dish out the punishments. But what happens when the tables are turned, and they become the ones receiving the punishment?
Men in BDSM can experience a variety of dedicated punishments, including stripping, caging, use of nipple clamps, silence treatment, teasing and denial, tickling, and more. The punishments are usually administered by a Dominatrix and involve various degrees of control and compliance on the part of the malesub.
Take a peek into the world of Femdom and explore ten dedicated punishments for men in BDSM. Get an overview of the intensity of these punishments and the expected compliance involved.
Can You Punish a Male Partner in BDSM?
Pushing boundaries and exploring punishments in BDSM require considerable responsibility and consideration—particularly when disciplining a male partner. In BDSM relationships where the male partner is submissive, punishing him can be a part of the dynamic as long as it is consensual and negotiated. An external force is unnecessary if the male partner is the Dom, as better behavior correction should come from within.
Communicating and discussing the rules and desired behaviors with your male partner is essential. This ensures that both of you are on the same page and understand the roles you’re playing. However, it’s best if all the communication and negotiation about rules and punishment end finally in a written agreement or BDSM contract to be sure what punishments are okay and which ones are out of the limits.
What Are Some Punishments for Men in BDSM?
1. Stripping
Stripping is one of the most effective BDSM punishments for men. It is an intrusive form of humiliation that can bring about feelings of helplessness and degradation.
Being stripped is often an uncomfortable experience, as it reveals vulnerable parts of the body, especially if the man is not prepared for it. But on the other hand, this kind of punishment will draw out deeper emotions from men, providing emotional catharsis.
Also, stripping can be a valuable method of introducing men to further forms of punishment. It helps build anticipation and tension, making the experience more intense and memorable.
2. Caging
Caging can provide an extremely powerful sense of punishment in BDSM. It represents a forced sense of confinement that strongly serves to humble and correct the undesirable actions of the male partner. Primarily, this punishment isolates the man by limiting their movement and level of control without direct permission from the other partner. This can serve as a powerful lesson in control and obedience.
Through restraining movement in this way, the man learns to understand and respect the boundaries placed on them within the BDSM relationship.
One of the best male chastity cages out here is the Mystim Public Enemy No. 1, which you easily could integrate into your electroplay to make this man’s punishment even more remarkable for the male sub.
3. Use of Nipple Clamps
Nipple clamps can be the perfect way to gently remind men of their desired behaviors in a BDSM setting. The sharp sensation that comes with nipple play, especially when electricity is involved, produces a powerful effect and can be used to help punish or correct bad behavior. When nipple clamps are used in a BDSM environment, the man must accept his submission and comply with whatever he is commanded. The man must learn to listen and obey if he wants the sensation removed.
This particular punishment can simultaneously be incredibly effective and not too painful while generating enough sensation to get the man to pay attention and comply.
4. Silence Treatment
BDSM offers a variety of punishments for men, but one of the most effective is silence treatment. This punishment instills fear in the man, making him feel powerless and helpless. When this punishment is meted out, a man is not allowed to speak or to receive any communication or acknowledgment from the dominant partner. He is denied the right to speak or be responded to.
This punishment has proven to be highly effective in correcting bad behavior, especially verbal behavior. By removing all ability for the man to express himself, he is forced to reconsider his words before speaking as extreme caution and prudence become paramount.
5. Tease and Denial
Tease and denial are one of the BDSM punishments for men, which combine the power of physical and psychological control. Through frustration and the constant denial of orgasm, men are forced to learn their role and accept the power difference between them and their partner.
This is one of the sexual punishments for men, where the male partner must accept and abide by the boundaries that he has allowed to be set. In the tease and denial session, the man may be subjected to various forms of sexual play, although the climax can never be reached.
6. Tickling
Tickling men to punish them for misbehaving may seem unusual initially, but it is pretty compelling. While some may consider it a game, it can be quite difficult for the recipient of punishment – depending on the intensity. Tickling often induces involuntary twitching, and laughing can add to the uneasy feeling.
Due to its light-hearted nature, this particular punishment is best used when dealing with relatively harmless mild offenses. Though the results of tickling may not be as strenuous as other punishments, it can certainly be enough to deter someone from misbehaving in the future.
7. Ice-cold shower
Drenching cold showers, frequently dreaded by the mere thought of them alone, can be used as a dedicated punishment to correct behavior in BDSM. This chilling punishment is becoming more commonplace in the BDSM space and offers an exciting dynamic to the whole experience.
By being uncomfortable due to the cold, male submissives will begin to reflect on their misdealing or misconduct. The shock of the cold can disrupt any mischievous thoughts while allowing the malesub to address their wrongdoings. Learn more about temperature play ideas here.
8. Forced Feminization
If you’re looking for an adequate level of dedicated punishment for a man in BDSM, forced feminization might be the answer. Not only does the physical action of dressing as a woman or taking part in ‘girly’ activities evoke feelings of embarrassment and submission in a man, but this physical action also serves to illustrate that the power and control have shifted.
The man must submit to the woman’s power as a punishment for misbehavior and a reminder of his submissive position. The psychological effects of this form of punishment can be powerful and long-lasting, making it an effective corrective tool.
9. Time Out
Time out? It may sound like a punishment suitable for a naughty child, but it can be a powerful tool for keeping men in check in the BDSM world. While it is not a physical punishment, its purpose is to make the man reflect on why he must be punished first and understand the actual consequence of his behavior.
To impose such a punishment, a Femdom will remove the malesub from the situation and leave him alone for a set period. In this ‘timeout,’ the male partner can think over their mistake and avoid the scene of their misdeed. It’s useful for the Femdom to keep the malesub in check and correct their behavior simply through a calm, controlled punishment.
Feel the Action: Punishing Men in BDSM
BDSM has a rich history of pushing boundaries, exploring fantasies, and putting subs in their place! For male subs, these 9 punishments will undoubtedly do the trick!
Stripping, caging, and nipple clamp use are just the start of this exhilarating experience. Silence can be an incredibly powerful form of punishment, and once that’s established, it’s time to tease and deny. Tickling can be a surprisingly effective punishment – a little playful, to be sure, but don’t forget the cold shower after. You can’t go wrong with forced feminization or an excellent old-fashioned timeout for an all-encompassing punishment.
So, for all your Femdoms out there, these 9 punishments offer a robust way of punishing the men who dare to break the rules.